Ive had white male friends who ve held there own in 3 sums.Ive also had a few brothas who couldnt stack up and kinda let my female friends down. Its in the milk I guess. I think contrast during sex plus excitement makes it harder.

I think non-black men who are into this lifestyle (eg moi) indulge in the idea of being smaller than average because it feeds into their fantasy.

But I am sure, that whilst attributing bigger than average sizes for black males might be giving some of them a leg up in the lifestyle (and opening some white legs), it must also be working against those black males, who fall on the shorter side of the spectrum.

That is if we simply make this lifestyle about size.

And it shouldn't be just about size, but also about the contrasts as Dr_Dick_Dangler states, cultural differences, and the benefits the individual brings into the relationship.

This is sooooooooo not true. I have seen may black man with average or small cocks and many white guys with average or small cocks. Don't know where this got started but it is definitely a falsehood. Some guys are just bigger than others.

My personal experience as a gay man who has been with many different men is that while there are a number of black men who are average (haven't been with any I'd call small), black men make up a disproportionate share of the really big guys I've seen. My "top 10" in terms of dick size have all been black men. The biggest of these guys were absolutely huge. Never been with a white guy like that. They may well exist, but I haven't run into them.

Just my $0.02 . . .