Hi everyone, my name is Lara, I'm white, 26 years old, and I have a wonderful Black Lover named Steve. I discovered the joy of interracial sex a little over a year ago, although I am married to a white boi named Jeff. I love sex with Black Men, so much so that I want to stop having sex with my white husband. Don't get me wrong, I still love him, but I just feel that white men don't really deserve sex, and I feel a strong desire to be devoted to my Black Lover, and eventually to bear his child.
On other forums, some people advised me to try to take things gradually with my white husband, to slowly wean him off of sex, but to give him lots of blowjobs and handjobs to help him adjust, but also to get him to watch me with Steve a lot so he can see what a superior lover Steve is. I think this is working, I'm getting Jeff used to our new situation.
I was just curious if any other women on this forum have had to deal with this kind of situation, and how you've gone about it.
Love,
Lara
On other forums, some people advised me to try to take things gradually with my white husband, to slowly wean him off of sex, but to give him lots of blowjobs and handjobs to help him adjust, but also to get him to watch me with Steve a lot so he can see what a superior lover Steve is. I think this is working, I'm getting Jeff used to our new situation.
I was just curious if any other women on this forum have had to deal with this kind of situation, and how you've gone about it.
Love,
Lara
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Re: cutting off white husband
Fri, March 28, 2008 - 8:55 PMyou said you still love him... why would you even think of cutting him off then? do what you must but be atleast true to yourself and honest.
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Re: cutting off white husband
Thu, April 3, 2008 - 12:30 PMi am single now but was cucked by a former gf who cut me off 100% once she went black. However, we were having les and less sex in the preceding month which led to us moving forward as a cuck couple.
What helped me accept it the most was simply seeing how much more satisfied she was, not just watching her with her black lovers but in everyday life she was happier in general and more enjoyable to be around. I never pleased her like that and I loved seeing her so happy. Not too mention the reality that sets in when you witness your gf and bull having sex, comparitively you see just how pathetic you are sexually. Eventually, you go from being angry at being cut-off to feeling fortunate to still be with her.
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Re: cutting off white husband
Tue, May 6, 2008 - 5:20 AMI th ink you are right to cut your husband off. It is your choice. He should respect that. I imagine that he looks to you for leadership and structure in his life. However, you can't ignore his sexual needs, but you won't be fullfillling them with penetrative sex. Milking or hand jobs would be the way.
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Re: cutting off white husband
Wed, May 14, 2008 - 5:55 PMThe vast majority of white men cant compete with a strong, well hung black man when it comes to satisfying a woman so I think you're probably right that your husband doesnt deserve sex with you. Many his hand if you let him. If he is agreeable to being cut off from you, you should tell him that you only have sex with your black lover now but be sure to let your husband get off from time to time if you think he will become too resentful. You need to keep him around to serve and finance your affairs. I would love to hear your story of how you got into the lifestyle.
Mike
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Re: cutting off white husband
Mon, June 23, 2008 - 9:20 AMI had my hubby clipped instead
we even found Black Dr to take him manhood and of course his wife later that night
it makes hubbys clean up soo much better with him knowing he can never impregnate me
